21 Grams

Well, if you’re looking for an uncomplicated heart warming tale to watch with your family over the Thanksgiving holiday, this isn’t it.  I loved this movie, for all the reasons I usually love movies — it’s dark, gritty, complex, emotionally taxing, and beautifully acted.  For extra interest, it also addresses issues of religion, faith, and redemption, and leaves them largely unresolved, also just like I like.  Naomi Watts, Benicio Del Toro and Sean Penn are the main characters in an intricate story with an accident at the center.  From the official website, director Alejandro González Iñárritu describes the film as:

a meditation that explores some of the things in our complex lives: loss, addiction, love, guilt, coincidence, vengeance, obligation, faith, hope, and redemption. I like multi-dimensional and contradictory characters, as I am and as, I guess, are all human beings that I know. No one is simply good or bad. We are just floating in an immense universe of circumstances. I like to show their weaknesses and their strengths without judging them, because only then can they reveal things about our human condition.

Beautifully done.  Would be a great double feature with Crash.

Smooth Move

I did an extra coordinated move just now that’s worth sharing.  I was getting sad and lonely working in my hotel room all by myself all day yesterday, so Brad kindly arranged with Fred Wilson for me to work in Union Square Ventures’ offices today, which was awfully kind.  They have a magnificent painting in their reception area by Daniel Kohn and open airy offices.  One quirky thing is that the restrooms are located outside their offices in a hallway and require a key to enter.  Their front door has a keypad entry and a doorbell and is always locked, which feels either very New York or very post-9/11, or both.  Today was their annual meeting in the afternoon, which everyone was attending except me. 

You see what’s about to happen?

Yup.  I went to the restroom and propped their back door open with a Sports Illustrated magazine, which managed to slip down and leave me locked out of their empty offices.  No cellphone, no wallet, no magic code for the keypad, certainly no key for the door; just nice clean hands. 

Smooth.

I went down to the lobby and the security guard who had no ability to let me into the office did let me use his phone to call Brad (a long distance call) and Brad, being my knight in shining armor, somehow arranged to have a building superintendant come and let me in.  Thanks, Brad.

Babbo

Babbo is a special place.  Brad and I got to have dinner there tonight courtesy of the last minute reservation powers of Fred Wilson, who is a gentleman and a scholar.  After our surprisingly rapid tour of the MoMA we took a taxi down to Greenwich Village.  After some language difficulties with the cabbie, who I thought was saying Beverly Place instead of Waverly Place, we managed to get there.  Babbo is quite small and intimate, with soft lighting and the comfortable service that happens at restaurants confident in their excellence. 

Although it is white truffle season and they offered a beautiful white truffle tasting menu, we exercised some restraint.  We both started with a beautiful beet salad with steamed spinach, and then Brad had the maccheroni alla chitarra as his entree.  I had the spaghettini with lots of roasted garlic cloves and the meat of a one pound lobster.  The lobster meat got a little overpowered by the sweetness of the red sauce.  Both of our pastas were cooked perfectly, with some firmess left to bite into.  For dessert, we shared a delicious pistachio and chocolate semifreddo, which I’m used to having served in a parfait glass.  This looked more like a panna cotta and was a perfect combination of sweet and chilled and chewy.  Very nice. 

I’d definitely like to eat here again, as soon as possible, really.  Thanks, Fred..

An Alaskan Abroad

As I logged in to TypePad this morning, one of the blogs on the Recently Updated list was titled An Alaskan Abroad, which sounded interesting to me since I’m an Alaskan, too, although I’ve now lived outside the state longer than I lived in it.  I think that being born there gives me lifelong status, right?  An Alaskan Abroad has great photos of Alaska —

Adding this to my Online Reading list..

Homecoming

As completely happy as I am with my child-free life, I really love being an aunt.  My sister Wendy has done all of the hard work of being a parent, and now I get to do all kinds of fun things.  Morgan and Drew have mastered the fundamentals of polite society (chew with your mouth closed, don’t interrupt people who are talking, write thank you notes promptly — some of which I’m still working on) and are delightful people to spend time with.  This past weekend was Monarch High School’s Homecoming weekend.  Monarch’s football team remains undefeated with a blowout victory for Homecoming; but that’s not the fun part of the weekend for me. 

I got to be fun Aunty Amy and took Morgan and her friend, Mandy, to shop for dresses in September, and then took them to get manicures and pedicures on Thursday.  Wendy and I both took them to lunch and arranged for fancy hairdos the day of the dance.  Drew had decided he didn’t want to go to the dance, so I traded two young lovelies for him in the afternoon and we went to the mall for a movie and some shopping (needed shoes and a protective cover for his new Nano).  Drew and I decided to stop in and say hello at Red Robin where Morgan and Mandy and their dates were having dinner and they persuaded Drew to come to the dance after all, which I thought was very nice.  But this necessitated a head-to-toe wardrobe transformation for Drew — luckily we were already at a mall.  While the rest of the gang ate dinner, Drew and I dashed madly through Express for Men, where Jeff and Sabrina really entered into the spirit of the thing, even tying Drew’s tie since neither he nor I had any idea how to do that.  We bought shoes and socks and belt at Foleys, and a shiny new baseball cap to replace his aging North Carolina hat, and raced off to the parking lot.  We actually ran into Morgan and Mandy and Nick and Ryan and Carlos, who were loading into Nick’s dad’s car, so I took Carlos so everyone could ride with a seat belt.  I’m kind of a stickler for that.  Everyone got safely delivered to the high school and by all accounts had a grand time.  Here are some photos:

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DMV

In the "there has got to be a better way of doing this" category of life experiences, renewing a drivers license must be high on the list.  I spent 90 minutes yesterday at the Department of Motor Vehicles in order to have them check my vision and have me affirm that I didn’t have any mental impairment that would keep me from driving safely (didn’t admit to my shoe fetish), take my right index fingerprint, and have me sign a piece of paper.  Of course, the clerk inadvertently had me sign the form for a Joshua Somebody, which luckily I noticed before I left, and we eventually got that all straightened out after I showed my passport to prove that I’m not Joshua Anybody.  The strange and quite annoying thing is that I still don’t have an actual current license since they now mail it to you instead of creating it on the premises.  Instead I have a large piece of paper that I’m supposed to keep in my wallet until my new one arrives.  A friend told me today that this is because of problems with DMV employees creating fake I.D.s to sell when the laminating machine was on the premises.  That’s not very comforting in these post-9/11 days of Patriot Acts and fingerprinting.

The fun part was when the DMV agent asked whether I wanted to keep my weight at the same number as my old license and I said yes, even though I weigh 15 pounds (okay, 20 pounds) more than the weight on my license.  Did I commit some kind of illegal act?  Fraud?  I answered the question truthfully:  I really DO want to keep my weight at the same number as my license, but haven’t been successful in my desire.  I wonder how many licenses accurately reflect the weight of their holder.  Does yours?

William Eggleston: In the Real World

I went to the IFC Center in Greenwich Village yesterday afternoon with my friend, Scott Moody, to see a documentary film about photographer William Eggleston, who is one of my favorite photographers.  His official website generously shows the images from each of his monographs, as well as John Szarkowski’s introductory essay to the monograph William Eggleston’s Guide which accompanied the first solo exhibition of color photographs ever shown at the Museum of Modern Art in 1976.  I saw a large exhibition of Eggleston’s work at the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art from the Los Alamos Project, which continues his richly colored images of the ordinary.  I describe him to myself as a Buddhist photographer because of the way his work seems to say that everything is worthy of notice, which turns out to be similar to the way he describes himself. 

“I had this notion of what I called a democratic way of looking around, that nothing was more or less important," William Eggleston once said. This radical attitude guided his ground-breaking work in color photography, work that has prefigured many recent developments in art and photography. Los Alamos presents a series of photographs that has never before been shown, yet it contains a blueprint of Eggleston’s aesthetics, his subtle use of subdued color hues, the casual elegance of his trenchant observations of the mysteries of the mundane. The photographs in Los Alamos were shot in Eggleston’s native Memphis and on countless road trips across the American South from 1964 to 1968 and from 1972 to 1974. Initially, Eggleston wanted to create a vast compendium of more than 2000 photographs to be contained in 20 volumes; he wanted the viewer to look at the photographs the way one looks at the world. He eventually abandoned this project–and hardly any of the negatives were ever printed. Now, 30 years later, we finally get to see a selection of this encyclopedia of Southern everyday life and vernacular culture. It’s a stunning discovery that makes the so-called snapshot photography of recent years pale in comparison. Eggleston’s astonishingly timeless portraits, still lives, landscapes, and photographs of buildings add up to a profound investigation of the world and our way of looking at it, a poetics of pleasures hidden in full view. They transcend the merely descriptive and uncover the universal encapsulated in the details and the detritus of life in a consumer culture. (from Amazon.com)

The film offered intimate, often painful, looks into Eggleston’s life.  My favorite part of the film is a segment where you get to see him framing and taking shots of a house on the side of the road, and then see the resulting prints of those shots.  His pace is rapid and unpremeditated, the shots unstaged and lit with natural light, and he rarely takes a second shot.  He speaks eloquently during the film about this; but then seems stubbornly unwilling to analyze his work and process in other contexts.  The awards ceremony for the Hasselblad Prize is shown, and I couldn’t help but wonder whether he was drunk when receiving the award.  I kept wanting to leap up and remind Eggleston and his drinking/drunken friends that they were being filmed — which is useless — and they seemed entirely comfortable showing what turns out to be a thoroughly alcohol soaked life to the camera.  At the beginning of the film his hands tremble perceptibly while he is working, and it isn’t until later in the film that I connected this with his problems with alcohol.  I’ve always regarded artistic work separate from the life of the artist, and think that the cult of personality thing is entirely out of hand.  When I learn about an artist’s private life, it frequently negatively impacts my assessment of the work (e.g. Ayn Rand).  In Eggleston’s case, this film starkly juxtaposes the ease of his work with the difficulties he apparently has navigating his daily life. 

The architect we’ve been working with on plans for our dream house, Coleman Coker, gave us the book accompanying the Hasselblad Prize  in 1998, which was probably my first in-depth exposure to Eggleston’s work.  Thanks, Coleman.

The film itself was fascinating.  Unfortunately, one of the short films before the main attraction had so much swirling and whirling imagery (trains, ferris wheels, camera whizzing in circles) that I actually got motion sickness from watching and had to turn away from any blurry, whirrying, rapidly cut images in the documentary itself, including some rare and early video work by Eggleston.  I’m finding that my susceptibility to motion sickness is getting worse as I get older.  It’s a mystery to me..

Bond Street

For October 1st Life Dinner, Brad and I went to Bond Street, which is a sushi place here in New York that feels like an elegant cocktail lounge.  The hostess wore a swirly orange cocktail dress and the lighting is dim and it’s quite romantic, which is not the norm for sushi.  The food was delicious, and little touches like gold foil on the tuna tartare made things special.  Their "new style" hamachi appetizer was so good we ordered another.  Dessert had lots of fun gold foil on top.  Not our usual jeans and t-shirt sushi place.  Very nice.

After dinner we walked around and found a Best Buy as Brad’s Life Dinner gift, where he bought a Verizon Wireless EVDO card and I bought some different headphones for my iPod Shuffle. 

And in case I had any doubts, I got to prove once again that my Manolo’s weren’t made for walking.  I rubbed big holes in the back of each of my heels.  These shoes are pretty to look at, but not very functional.  They’re what I call "restaurant shoes," meaning that you walk in them from the car to the restaurant to your table, perhaps take a trip to the restroom, then walk back to the car and drive home.  I wore these same pair for an entire day at the Kentucky Derby, but apparently didn’t learn my lesson on the first Sunday in May.  I look into the future and see me wearing uncomfortable shoes on November 1st, too..

And where did September go?

The last month just simply disappeared while I was jaunting about seeing a bunch of different airports.  I was in Rome for a week, home for 4 days, then in Dallas for a long weekend, home for 3 days, and am now in New York and will be in Boston soon.  I didn’t bring my laptop on either the Rome or Dallas trips, and just fell out of the blogging routine.  I’m definitely a creature of habit, and am getting back in the blog practice again now.

I did finally manage to post some of the photos that I took in Rome.  I struggled with Picassa and my home network and ended up renaming each individual photo file so I could have them display in the order I wanted them.  It was a laborious (and probably unnecessary) process.  I can outsmart the TypePad display algorithm, dammit.  I’m having fun with my digital camera and am starting to play with simple digital editing effects.

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I had a tremendous time in Rome celebrating my sister Martha’s 40th birthday, and my 39th.  It’s a great city.  I find that 2,000 year old buildings make me feel quite youthful, still.

I bought myself shiny new Tumi luggage as a birthday gift to myself, which has already been a useful and appropriate gift.  My black rolling carry on bag split its zipper in Hong Kong in July 2000 and has been barely hanging in ever since, and the blue Kiva rolling duffle bag I bought to go to Africa in March 2000 has just about given up on me.  Loving my silvery luggage so far — certainly easy to spot on a luggage carousel.

While fruitlessly hunting through SoHo today for jeans that don’t give me plumber’s butt (what IS it with jeans these days?), I went into Bloomingdales and saw this orange Tumi laptop case, which I almost bought, but didn’t.  It’s good to practice self-restraint once in awhile.

Other fun things in September were: 

  • celebrating Cecelia’s birthday with the Feld family in Dallas, and not getting hit by Rita
  • getting to go to a real live Broncos game, courtesy of my friend, Howard Diamond
  • taking my 16 year-old niece, Morgan, homecoming dance dress shopping
  • spa day at the St. Julien with Mollie Fager
  • lunch at Mi Cocina in Highland Park with Lara Peirce
  • being back in Boulder after the summer in Alaska and sharing time with friends and family

Additional neglected habits I’d like to restore in October are exercise and reading books.  I’m still flossing daily..

Crash

The one movie I saw in September that’s worth mentioning is Crash.  It is beautiful and painful and full of complex characters who are easy to judge at first sight, and then the movie reveals other facets of them that make each person very human.  The only character who seemed entirely beyond redemption was aPersian man who was willing to shoot a man and his 5 year-old daughter and seemed to have no understanding or remorse.  The movie tackles some big issues (race, power and abuse of power, corruption, different cultures clashing) and keeps challenging your initial understanding of scenes.  It’s nice to see a movie that isn’t full of an ironic detachment and actually dares to evoke emotion in a viewer.  Definitely one to see..